- Natalie Newville
- Apr 1
- 3 min read
Joleen Aberer and Kristi Rasmussen may not have a lot in common when it comes to their families in Catholic schools.
Joleen, second-grade teacher at St. James School, and her husband, Mike, have seven children who all attended St. Joseph Catholic Academy. Their two youngest are currently at Bishop LeBlond High School, and they currently have four grandchildren who attend St. James. They have had children in the Academy for almost two decades.
Kristi Rasmussen, director of Communications and Marketing for the St. Joseph Chamber of Commerce, and her husband, Paul, have one daughter, Katarina. She began attending St. Gianna Early Childhood Center and is currently in seventh grade at Cathedral.
But they do share this in common: Both are very happy with their choice to send their children to the Academy. They appreciate the strong academics in a faith-based atmosphere, and both feel a strong sense of community within the schools.

Joleen said she grew up attending Catholic schools in Omaha, Nebraska, and Mike attended two years at St. Patrick School in St. Joseph (now closed) before attending public school.
When the time came to choose a school for their children, Joleen said they never really had a conversation about it.
“It was just an assumption that we would send them to Catholic school,” she said. “Mike knew what he didn’t get growing up and he wanted it for his kids.”

Kristi said she always figured they would send her daughter to public school, but they had such a great experience at St. Gianna’s that they decided to continue at Cathedral.
Then her husband, who went to a Catholic church as a child but was not confirmed, had an interest in becoming Catholic and went through RCIA classes. “I wanted us all to be able to take Communion together, so I went through the classes the next year,” Kristi said.
She said one experience when Katarina was in kindergarten cemented their decision about Catholic school education.
“Before my mother passed, we used to talk on speaker phone every day on the way to school. Mom was talking about a friend of hers who was sick. A few minutes later I looked in the back seat and saw Katarina praying. When she was done I asked her what she was praying about and she said, ‘for Grandma’s friend to get better.’ As much as I’d like to say that was my great parenting skills, I think that was more Mrs. Supple’s (her kindergarten teacher’s) influence. It warmed my heart and is something I’ll never forget.”
Joleen remembers feeling a sense of belonging and validation of her and Mike’s decision from the moment she registered her oldest daughter for school at St. James. “A mom came up to me and gave me several uniforms, all clean and pressed. She saw that I had several daughters and knew I could use them. I know it seems like such a small thing, but I felt so welcomed,” Joleen said. “It was nice to immediately feel a part of the community, especially since I didn’t grow up here.”
(She also noted that she had five girls go through Catholic schools and she only had to buy one uniform skirt. “Later, someone gave me skirts, so if I had waited two weeks, I wouldn’t have had to buy any,” she said with a laugh.)
Joleen believes the relationships that her family formed with their children’s teachers is another great benefit of Catholic schools. “The teachers have helped us through the difficult times. It’s bigger than academics; the teachers really get to know the kids and their needs. No system is ever perfect, but when you are on this parenting ride with like-minded people, it really helps.”
“Overall, I’m totally confident with our choice in sending our daughter to a Catholic school,” Kristi said. “The small class sizes are great and she knows all the teachers and administrators in the building. She’s known most of the kids in her class for so long, they feel like extended family. And she is exposed to God every day.”
Joleen had been teaching part time, but began teaching full time this academic year because all full-time Academy teachers now receive free tuition for their children, no matter which Academy school their children attend and no matter where they teach.
“Every day in the Catholic school, children are surrounded by people whose faith is important to them,” Joleen said. “Faith becomes more of the fiber of their lives rather than just a small part of it.”
One of the most powerful ways SJCA grows is through the enthusiasm and recommendations of our current families. By sharing the many benefits of Catholic education, along with the scholarships and financial aid opportunities available, you can help others see that a Catholic education is an achievable and life-changing option for their family. Potential families can visit www.stjoecatholicacademy.com/tours to set up a tour!